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Win's portrait of Winibee in September 1960.
Winibee was living in Iowa a long time before Maureen and I wound up there. The first time we came across the country, in August 1968, we stopped in to see her and Shery and their sons, Dave and Jay. They were living in Perry, which is twenty or thirty miles north of Des Moines. I remember the huge trees lining the streets, and I remember the wonderful Iowa repast Winibee set out for Maureen and me, probably around eleven at night -- one of those hot midwestern nights. I remember the buttery corn on the cob and the thick slices of juicy ripe tomatoes.
Mmm! What a good dinner!
California was still ahead of us then. Who could ever have predicted, then, that Maureen and I would wind up in Iowa too? That I would live there for seventeen years and that Maureen would be there still?
Another of Win's portraits, this one from 1970. "Win was visiting in Perry," Jay says, "and painted all of us but my father (who refused to sit still that long)." Winibee remembers sitting in the kitchen in their upstairs apartment at Willis Avenue, trying not to fall asleep while Win painted her.
Another photo of me, looking particularly mean and intense, with Winibee. This is four or five years later, inside the house she and Shery had bought in Perry -- but it looks as though twenty winters or so have passed within the dark Siberia of my soul.
Winibee is always so cheery. Imagine being so cheery when you have a brother who -- in the photo above, at least -- looks like an escapee from a chain gang!
(In the other photos taken on that day -- which I don't have access to right now -- I actually look quite cheery myself. It was a day when Dave and Carrie were visiting, too, and, between the two of them and Jay and Winibee, I don't believe I ever laughed so hard in my life.)
In July 1994 Shery, Winibee's husband of 43 years, went into the hospital, and when the doctors looked at his heart they told Dave and Jay, "Your dad isn't going to leave the hospital alive." Half an hour after they took him off the respirator he died.
Jay transported his remains down to Perry, where years before Shery had made his first real- estate purchase -- four plots in the cemetery. He'd made it clear that that was where he wanted to be buried.
This is nine months after Shery's death, while Winibee was still living in her Atlantic Street house near Lake Phelan -- waiting for her new "seniors'" cottage to be completed. I had had a bouquet delivered for her birthday, and she sent me this photo so I could see what it looked like.
After Shery's death Jackie -- who had at that time no inkling of the deteriorating condition of her own heart -- invited Winibee to come live with her in Kensington, but Winibee didn't think that would work and opted instead to move into a cottage in a "seniors'" development, where she'd have a closer pool of neighbors than she and Shery had had on Atlantic Street.
Winibee did go east in August 1995 to visit her sisters. She housesat for Julie when she went to Europe with Julie Lynn and her kids and for Jackie when she went down to Cape Hatteras.
With Jackie.       With Jan and her kids.
The cottage in Maplewood wasn't ready for her till a year later -- a few months after she'd traveled east for Jackie's memorial service.
Winibee at the Chesapeake in July 1996, the day Jackie's daughters took her ashes out to scatter them on the water. (For some other photos of that day, see Jackie's daughters.)
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